Why are so many people who play poker so frustrated?

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Because at first glance this is a very simple game and it seems that knowing the rules it is very easy to win. But beyond the usual rules, there are many aspects that professional players use that amateurs do not take into account to improve their game. For example, proper bankroll management or analyzing the game for errors!!! It's like in sports, all people know how to run, but if you get up every morning and go for a run, while maintaining proper nutrition, not drinking alcohol and not smoking, then your results will be clearly better than most people!!!
 
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Poker is full of examples in which we can experience pain, but we need to understand that many of them are beyond our control.The faster you learn to identify those situations that are beyond your control, the faster you can begin to work on accepting them.We must work on those aspects of life and poker that we can influence, and ignore everything else that is beyond our control.
 
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Probably because they over estimate their skill level and think it's easy money.
 
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Quite simply. its a very frustrating game. While this game can be fun it can make you love your mind especially when variance is involved.
 
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I think it's a combination of entitlement syndrome, not understanding the odds and just poor play.... for instance people who post poor hands preflop and then somehow magically flop a hand and then are rivered.... you put yourself there to get rivered so why cry, and yeah poker is frustrating by design👍
 
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Why are so many people who play poker so frustrated?
I think most players who experience disappointment experience it because they had inflated positive expectations. People who start playing poker often think that it will be easy money for them, but in reality everything turns out to be completely wrong :)
 
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Because they don't know how to handle the up and down energy of poker. I think this is almost as important as studying poker to know how to play solid fundamental poker because too many people go on downswings and get filled with negativity and it drastically affects their game. They start raising too large preflop because they are constantly afraid of getting beat, and then when they do, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. People tend to dwell on the negatives and forget that time that they caught runner runner to win a big pot.
 
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Ohhhh that îs easy.. They all want to win!!! Or worst, They play stages of limit or better said no limit 😂😂😂 that They cant afford to play and especially lose..
 
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Because for one player to win, many others must lose....
 
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either they cannot accept the bad beats they get, or they are terrible at poker. lol
 
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Because only one player can win a tournament. The rest are loosing something.
 
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Why are so many people who play poker so frustrated?
Because poker is frustrating. My Thursday came this week, I never won one hand all night. I did split one hand only, that's it, never won a hand all night. Lost $418 But still had fun.
 
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Poker can be frustrating due to its reliance on luck, emotional investment, and complex decision-making. The game's variance means even skilled players face long losing streaks. Financial losses add significant stress, especially for those relying on winnings. As competition increases with higher stakes, challenges grow, potentially leading to tilt—emotional overwhelm that prompts irrational decisions. Online play may exacerbate feelings of isolation after losses. Managing emotions and keeping a balanced view are essential for enjoying and succeeding in poker over the long term.
 
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because of R-ng . what else ))))
 
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I think the frustration comes from the fact that it involves money and you end up losing, and in addition to money there is the emotional side as well, taking several bad hits in a row is a bit discouraging.
 
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I've got used to losing so I no longer get frustrated with losing and see poker as a hobby. The two things that still frustrate me are calling off knowing I'm beat, and when I get sucked out on the river or runner runner. The frustration only lasts a few minutes, then have to move on to focus on what needs to get done.
 
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Many people get frustrated with poker because they want consistent results like the professionals quickly, and poker is a long-term construct.
 
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A person who thinks that he will win a lot of money here right away is disappointed with the poker game, but someone who understands that poker is a long-distance game will not be disappointed with him.
 
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Why are so many people who play poker so frustrated?
Most people are looking for easy ways, easy money. Hoping that poker can change your life in one day is a foolish hope. However, people live in their imaginary world where they are comfortable, and when their dreams do not come true, people feel disappointed and depressed. All this is a consequence of the lack of a realistic view of life.
 
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It's very difficult to assimilate our positive expectations being annihilated right in front of us, especially when we win one or two tournaments and see the difficulty of that moment repeating itself.
 
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Why are so many people who play poker so frustrated?
I don't ever feel Frustrated, If you follow a strict Bankroll strategy and can afford the downswings we all go through, then losing at a critical point in a game is just acceptable, It's just part of the game and I can accept it for what it is.
If you are feeling Frustrated then there is a need to look at how you play and why you lose more often than other players, It could be something simple like playing Levels of buy-in you really shouldn't be playing, or you just cannot control your emotions and start to lose your temper when you start losing with big hands, It happens, but if you lose your temper at a Computer screen and smash it in anger, because that $10/$20 Dollar buy-in just went out the window, a new computer monitor will cost you a hell of a lot more than that.
It is very Important to get to a frame of mind, that losing a game doesn't faze you that much, It's Just A Game! There will always be more games.
 
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Because it's a game!!! 😅
 
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