High levels of aggression are required in poker, the trick is to know where and when to be aggressive and where and when to be passive as there is a time for both.
What you classify as a VIP I imagine you're doing so because they are aggressive and thus appear as tho they are giving their money away, however poker primarily revolves around the concept of "Fold
equity" and the fact that it's hard to make a good hand means you can make a lot of money by getting the other players to fold.
I imagine if you jumped up and played a few
hands at a stake much higher than you're playing now all the players would seem like aggressive VIP's, but that's just because they understand you probably don't have a hand, thus they can probably take the pot down with some well timed aggression.
Hope this helps
GL
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