How do you deal with impatience?

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“In poker the hardest thing for me is maintaining patience. I often hurry into the game and make unnecessary bluffs, which end up costing me. Now I’m trying to fold more hands and only play when I feel I have a good chance. How do you all learn to keep patience during play?”
 
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Poker is very much about patience. You won't always get a good hand to play. So it's normal to fold more often than to raise/call to see the flop.

Discipline and perseverance are key.

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It’s tough to sit through dry stretches, but that’s exactly what separates the grinders from the gamblers.
Try to find the right mix for your style of play.
 
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I play freerolls often to get that feeling regularly, and then I think it's a normal thing that we all experience in games.
 
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I try to deal with it by reminding myself that poker is a long-term game, not something to win in one orbit. If I feel like I’m forcing too many hands, I take a short break, breathe, or even step away from the computer for a few minutes. Staying focused on making good decisions instead of chasing action helps me calm down. For me, patience is like a muscle — the more I practice it, the stronger it gets.
 
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multi table.... always some action somewhere
 
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EAnd poker is a game where you have to have a lot of patience to play online. I tried listening to music or playing other tables so that this doesn't happen.
 
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Poker is very much about patience. You won't always get a good hand to play.
 
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Keeping your mind calm for a long time requires too much concentration and that is trained, perhaps you should research such as from the psychological side, to hypnosis
 
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Maintaining patience in poker comes from understanding that the game is long-term, each hand is just a step and controlling emotions helps you make better decisions.
 
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sometimes i have to distract myself with other things, other times I know that I wanna get in the money and need to wait, other times it's just knowing that the time will always come for a move just need to wait for it
 
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If it is online, I believe it is not a big problem - just add more tables - you foucus only on those you have some interesting cards, folding the rest.

Life can be a bit more tricky - my advice is treat hands you do not play as an ocassion of gaining free info about other players - observe carefully, try to find anything that could be important, memorise, try to guess their hands etc...
 
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