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Message: [QUOTE="Pitonealal, post: 7179973, member: 1052667"] Hey everyone, Losing in poker is one of the hardest parts of the game, especially when you feel like you’re doing everything right. I wanted to share some thoughts on how I try to handle losses and keep my mindset in check. First, it’s important to understand that variance is part of poker. Even if you make the right decisions every time, the cards don’t always cooperate. Let’s say you’re in a situation where your mathematical chance to win a hand is 60%. That’s a strong favorite, but it’s still only a 60% chance. That means 40% of the time, you will lose. So, if you lose 2 or 3 times in a row even when the math is on your side, it’s not a catastrophe. It’s completely normal. The math doesn’t lie in the long run, but in the short run, variance can create streaks of bad luck. It feels unpleasant, of course, but it doesn’t mean you’re making mistakes or that the universe is against you. --- Why It Feels So Bad 😔 Losing when you’re a favorite is tough because our brains naturally notice losses more than wins. A bad beat sticks in your mind, while a hand you win feels normal. That’s why it can feel like you’re “cursed,” even if statistically everything is fine. --- How to Accept It 🧠 Here’s what I do to keep perspective: 1. Focus on decisions, not results – I remind myself that I made the correct choice according to the math. If I’m making +EV (expected value) decisions consistently, the results will follow in the long term. Losing a single hand or a small streak doesn’t change that. 2. Keep the long-term view – Poker is a marathon, not a sprint. Losing 3 hands in a row doesn’t matter when you’re thinking in terms of hundreds or thousands of hands. Over time, the 60% chances will work in your favor. 3. Detach emotions from outcomes – I try to avoid tilting by recognizing that losses are part of the game. Feeling frustrated is natural, but letting it influence your next decision is dangerous. 4. Learn from hands, but don’t overanalyze – I review hands to check if I made any mistakes, but I don’t obsess over “what if” scenarios. Some losses are simply variance, and there’s nothing to fix. --- Final Thoughts 💭 Accepting losses is about patience, perspective, and discipline. Losing a few hands in a row doesn’t mean you’re bad; it just means poker is poker. Focus on making the right decisions, trust the math, and remember that even the best players lose sometimes. Question for you guys: How do you personally handle bad streaks? Any tips for staying calm and focused after a few unlucky hands? [/QUOTE]

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